I have let go. Really?!

Some months ago and a couple of times after that.

M:”I have let go. I don’t expect anything from anyone at all. After getting to the point from which I have returned, I have lost all and any expectations.”

Recently…
S:”I dont expect anything from anyone anymore.”

In some cases I can raise this valid question and in some cases where it was not so intentional, I don’t even know if it will apply.But, here it is, why did you even go to the point where you had to lose any hope of anything from anyone? Isn’t it another oft quoted cliche about relationships, “Don’t expect anything, Just go with the flow?”. Ever heard of it? What about those who still expect from you? Just saying that you do not anymore takes care of it. Are you really detached or are you just pretending? Or may be not pretending, justifying the pain you have by telling yourself that you are detached. Where will you go and how far away will you run? Will you be able to run from yourself? I can’t say about you, but I cannot. I cannot decieve myself anymore. I hope you don’t run away as well.

I, for one, say that, expectations and assumptions are the mother of all fuck-ups. This one is no different.